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ACTIVITY 7: Facing Tough Situations

ACTIVITY 7: Facing Tough Situations

Susan responds to the offer by saying:

"No, thanks, I’d just rather not. Let’s go talk to Erika instead." (Suggest something else.)

How would you suggest something else?

ACTIVITY 7: Facing Tough Situations

ACTIVITY 7: Facing Tough Situations

A small group of students has gathered at a friend’s house one evening. When vapes come out, Susan is offered one by a casual friend. She chooses not to accept. She responds to the offer by saying one of the things on the following pages.

Refer back to this page as necessary to refresh your memory of the situation.

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

HOW ELSE COULD YOU SAY NO?

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

WAYS TO SAY NO
IF PRESSURED TO USE TOBACCO OR NICOTINE YOU MIGHT SAY
1) Say "no" and suggest something else.
2) Say "no" and talk about the consequences.
3) Say "no" and give them a reason or explain why you said no.
4) Say "no" and reverse the pressure.
5) Say "no" and change the subject.
6) Say "no" and add some humor.
7) Say "no" and walk away.

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

WAYS TO SAY NO
IF PRESSURED TO USE TOBACCO OR NICOTINE YOU MIGHT SAY
1) Say "no" and suggest something else.
Not interested. Let's go shoot hoops instead.
2) Say "no" and talk about the consequences.
No thanks. Smoking can yellow your teeth.
3) Say "no" and give them a reason or explain why you said no.
No thanks. I don't want to smell like smoke. I also want to be able to run in tomorrow's soccer game.
4) Say "no" and reverse the pressure.
No thanks. Why don't you toss the cigarettes? Most teens dislike being around smokers.
5) Say "no" and change the subject.
No thanks. Did you see the game last night?
6) Say "no" and add some humor.
No thanks. I'd like to keep my pearly whites.
7) Say "no" and walk away.
No thanks. (Exit)

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

Look at the "How to Say 'No'" poster.

Now, take a look at the lists on the next page. The first provides some ways to say "no," or refusal strategies. The second list gives examples of what you might say if you feel pressured to use tobacco or nicotine products. For each way to say “no,” there is an example of what you might say.

ACTIVITY 7: Sending Signals

ACTIVITY 7: Sending Signals

SENDING SIGNALS

People’s perceptions of us and our perceptions of others are based largely on what we do or say. Take a look at the picture on the next page. How would you describe each person?

ACTIVITY 7: Facing Tough Situations

ACTIVITY 7: Facing Tough Situations

FACING TOUGH SITUATIONS

Sometimes preparing for situations before they happen can help you deal with them when or if they do happen. For example, learning ways to say "no" to your friends who pressure you to do things you don't want to do can be helpful.

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

ACTIVITY 7: Saying “No” to Tobacco & Nicotine

SAYING "NO" TO TOBACCO & NICOTINE

Saying "no" to friends who are pressuring you can be hard to do. How you respond to them depends on the situation and what feels right-or wrong-to you. Deciding what to say can be even more difficult if you feel you are on the spot or everyone is watching. Practicing what to say can help you think about how you might say "no" in different situations.